Im a14 year old girl that has many family probs and may want to become apart of the emo scene?

okay i asked before but didnt really get an answer first of all i forgot that i mention i LIVE IN CAIRO EGYPT i ilve overseas mkay? i have an 18 year old sister who is pregant and unmarried and if yu arnt married over hereand yur pregant her bf can get put in jail. i have been picked on becuase of being a good girl. and recently my dad doesent trust me anymore becuase of what my sisiter did. my parents and family constantly fight and i spend most of my time lsitening to flal out boy in the dark when they fight. a group of my firends becaome clicky bitches and then my best friend moved so i only have two of my close friends left whcih im glad for. im not alowed to paint my nails dark colors or wear makeup i cant cut my hair the way i want to.my dad is verbally abusive . please help i dont know what to do! im not being presured to become emo. i jsut think i could reenvent myslef in high shcool. i am straightedge and i dont want to cut my self i grew up with my sister doin all that.

Im a14 year old girl that has many family probs and may want to become apart of the emo scene?

welcome to the teenage years.

**** happens. : |

just try to put up with it.

Im a14 year old girl that has many family probs and may want to become apart of the emo scene?

this is funny because i am 21 my lil sis is 12 - we also have a very abusive father but i got married at 18 and moved out ... my oldest sister moved out before me which got my dad upset she isnt married or anything but now my lil sis is home alone to deal with all of my dads bull crap... well she is into that emo stuff i mean personally she is a very cute girl and all that emo wont help anything it will just trigger ur fathers maddness... you would get into more trouble and i dunno but i think that would make things worse ....

Im a14 year old girl that has many family probs and may want to become apart of the emo scene?

Gosh, don't cut yourself. I know that cutting yourself may seem like dissolving all the other problems away because you're focused on the pain at that moment...but will they really solve any of your problems? Will they make them go away permanently? No. They won't. That's reality and you have to accept it (sorry, I'm being a little harsh...but I just really don't want you to do something stupid that could affect you in a bad way for the rest of your life). You're a young girl, and you have a whole life ahead of you.

And ask yourself this: does your sister have a good life? Do YOU want to become pregnant at 18 and have your parents so, so angry at you, have a boyfriend who could go to jail? These kinds of things are what happen to people who cut themselves when they were younger.

And I just really don't understand why someone would want to cut themself. Yeah, yeah, it takes away the pain, yadda yadda yadda. But in reality: what good will it do? Do people, like, compare scars in your school or something?

Sorry...that was a big rant. Just please...talk to someone you trust or find hope in yourself. But whatever you do, don't cut yourself. Usually I wouldn't do this because I have better things to do...but in this case....here's my email: julieding1993@yahoo.com. We can talk, if you want to. And I promise I won't ramble about not cutting yourself. I think I'm around your age. And it's pretty cool to live in egypt!